Detaching

Why the Grey Rock Method doesn’t work in the long term

The grey rock method can be useful temporarily to create some emotional distance from a narcissist. In the end, however, the only real solution for dealing with a narcissist is standing up for yourself and thus to go no contact. If you need to interact because of having children together, it’s important to learn to …

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Exploring mindfulness and narcissistic abuse: can mindfulness be helpful when dealing with narcissists?

In this article, I will explore practicing mindfulness after narcissistic abuse or when still dealing with narcissists. Can mindfulness or ‘awareness’ be helpful to push your mind in a healthier direction? I certainly believe so and I will try to explain how and why it can help! When you’re dealing with a narcissist your energy …

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9 manipulation tactics of narcissists explained

A narcissist has many manipulation tactics they use in order to (ab)use their victims. Sadly, a lot of people experience or have experienced narcissistic abuse. When in a relationship with a narcissist, the brutal and manipulative behaviour of narcissists leads to very unhealthy dynamics. The only real solution in order to protect your energy and …

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What is triangulation by a narcissist? About narcissistic triangulation, why they do it and how to deal with it

Triangulation is one of the many manipulation tactics a narcissist has and sadly, they love to use it. It’s a manipulation strategy in which one person doesn’t communicate directly with another person, but rather uses a third person for communication to the second person, thereby forming a triangle. Triangulation exists in many forms and has …

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